Thứ Sáu, 22 tháng 12, 2006

Failing

Failure. Honestly, I am a little afraid of it (maybe more than a little). I hate it. But of course, I had experienced failure many times in my life. And it hurts. Failure stings. Failure can be very hard. I know that I am not alone. Many people also hate failure, because it hurts. Failure to keep a promise. Failure in education or career. Failure in love. Failure in life. However, we should see the positive things even when we fail. According to the German General von Stuelpnagel in 1944, “No defeat is final. Defeats are simply lessons to be learned in preparation for the next and greater attack.” Strive to draw valuable lessons from every failure you suffered. Yes, failure is painful. But failure makes our success “deliciously” glorious. Besides, we have the Almighty Author of True Success to turn to in time of failure. He wants us to overcome the pulls and pushes of wrong desire. He wants us to succeed in life, by seeking and following the Truth. And, He will share us His success and happiness for eternity. Failure is hard, but how can we appreciate the success without experiencing failure?

Thought That Counts

This story is when my ex-girlfriend was not yet my girlfriend, more than a year ago. It was back when her birthday was coming near. And I decided to get her something for her birthday. I do not have a big allowance so I really do need to save up. For days, I saved my allowance and did not spend on snacks or anything. One day, my classmates and I were going towards the Internet Café. I decided to go with them. I do not plan to play with them but just watch and get some cold air from the airconditioner of the cafe. "Come on, Bernz, let's play," Josh Henry Regondola said to me. "I am saving my money," I replied. Josh knew that I am saving up to get something for my gift. "Come on, Bernz. She will not mind if you give her something cheap. It is the thought that counts," he insisted. That is Josh for you. He is a moron most of the time (hehehe…just kidding Josh). With a smile I shook my head and replied, "You are right, Josh. It is the thought that counts. That is why I want I want to give my best." He shrugged and gave up. And I hope he understands the point. After three weeks of saving, her birthday arrived. A weekend before her birthday, I purchased my gift. It was my best. I gave it to her on her birthday, feeling good with myself because it was the best I could give. A gift does not matter if it is expensive or cheap. It is the thought that counts. And being thoughtful means your best. It is the same with giving to God. It does not necessarily mean giving a few or much, as long as it is the best. Remember the story about the widow and the rich man in Mark 12:41-44? It is the same. What can you get when you give your best? Well, her smile when I gave the gift to her was enough for me. In the same way, wouldn't it be nice to make God smile?

Appreciating the Mayon

This thought is about the Mayon Volcano. What about the Mayon Volcano? It is the most perfectly shaped cone-shaped volcano in the world. It is one of the wonders of the world. It has been part of the lives of Albayanos. It even had a story of its origin in local legend. It has provided income for the local government of Albay through tourism. It also provided anguish to the settlers near the volcano when there is an eruption. But all in all, the Mayon Volcano is the pride of Albay. Those visiting in Albay admire the volcano. Its beauty spellbinds them. Its magnificence awes them. But Albayanos take for granted this beautiful creation of God. Most Albayanos just ignore it. They got used of this wonder. Most Albayanos may not fully appreciate Mayon Volcano. As for me, its beauty makes me see that God is amazing for making such wonderful volcano. But what I realized most in life about the Mayon Volcano is appreciating things. In our lives, God made beautiful things around us. We might take them for granted. And might realize its true value when it has disappeared from our lives. We might not be able to appreciate the good things that happen to us. And might see its significance when it has already gone. All these beautiful things we do not appreciate for we take them for granted. I think we should not wait until they are taken away from us before we see the beauty of the things around us. The beauty of the persons dear to us. The beauty of the good things in our lives. The beauty of ourselves. And by seeing the beautiful things in our lives, we will praise God for realizing that He is amazing for creating such wonderful things. Let us start now to show our appreciation for the "Mayon Volcanoes" in our lives.

Sailing in Life

Here is a story: To improve efficiency, a company hired a consultant, who called a meeting of all shop personnel. Stressing the need to listen to experts, he said, "Imagine you're on the Titanic, and it's sinking. You climb into a lifeboat. Which direction would you row?" He continued, "What if you had the ship's navigator with you? Now which way would you go? You'd row the way the navigator told you to, right?" There were murmurs of approval among the personnel. They agreed with the point of the consultant until one fellow in the back piped up, "Well, I don't know. He's already hit one iceberg!"
That was a rather humorous story. But I ask you, who is the navigator of your life? I remembered the last line of the famous poem, Invictus. I think it goes like this, "I am the master of my faith and the captain of my soul!" Many people think so, too. This line from the Invictus is the motto of humans. We believe we are the ones who should control our lives. We believe we make the outcome of our lives. We want to be the boss of our lives. Human nature makes us serve three persons, "Me, Myself and I". It is all about us. We cannot stomach someone controlling our lives. We want to live for our own. Doing what we think is right. Lives became miserable because of this philosophy. I think we should revise our motto to lead a meaningful life. It should go like this, "God is the master of my faith and the captain of my soul". Living for God and for others is a very meaningful life. God should be our boss. Trusting Him always and living for His pleasure. I truly believe that if we make Him the navigator of our lives, we will never hit an iceberg.

A Step To National Recovery

A priest once told this following story:
Satan gave a Filipino in Hell a privilege to call his friends that are left in this world by the use of the Hell's telephone. The Filipino was very happy to be able to call his friends from the afterlife. As he was about to call his friends, he observed in a list that there are expensive rates in calling to other countries. However, he noticed that calling to the Philippines is only cheap.
He asked Satan, "Why is it that the call rates to other countries are expensive while the call rate to the Philippines is cheap?"
Satan answered, "Calling to other countries are expensive because it is a long distance international call. The call to the Philippines is only a local one."
The story is a funny one. But seriously, is the Philippines really a "Hell"? Some people may think that living in this country is a, figurative or/and literal, "Hell". An Exaggeration? Maybe… but maybe not.
This country has really made a name for itself. Not only positively but, sadly, more on negatively. Our country is one of the most corrupt countries in the world. Our country is nearly one of the poorest. Our country is known for a haven for criminals and terrorists. It seems that there is no one safe here because of countless snatchers, "holdapers" and kidnappers.
That is why tourism is weak here nowadays. And if, in some sense, tourism is great here it is because of prostitution, child trafficking and such. Our country has been branded as a "sex country" and many pedophiles, perverts and other sex maniacs chose to go here.
Drugs are so abundant here. Gambling is abundant, too. Filipinos are known for people who have many vices.
Most Filipinos have low discipline, moral and self-respect. Throwing garbage and spitting anywhere are instincts of Filipinos. People have no respect for rules.
Politicians and law-enforcers here are known to be related to crocodiles (buwayas). Politics and justice in the Philippines are big jokes. Everyone can be bribed. It seems that money and power are the only ones important. Worst of all, this kind of people run this country.
We cannot deny that this is our country. Full of poverty, corruption, blasphemy, hypocrisy, immorality and violence. So much for our country being "Asia's Only Christian Country".
Do not get me wrong. I am only stating the facts. I love my country. I am proud I am a Filipino (especially when Pacquiao wins a bout). I really do believe that this country can improve.
I am often thinking what kind of life will I face after I graduate in college. I can feel the sting of our country's "hell" today but I will certainly feel the full blast of it when I entered the real life. Will the status of this country be the same? Or it will change? But what kind of change? Will it grew worse or better?
What kind of Philippines will my generation and I find ourselves living in the future? Most of my peers really think much about the future. Sadly, my peers think that this country will never improve and they decided to quickly live this country if given the chance.
I really believe the theory about the "brain drain" of this country. Many talented Filipinos are using those talents for different countries. Foreign countries are the ones who benefit from the Filipino's talents. If this "brain drain" will continue, what kind of Philippines will it be in the future?
Our economy is always failing. Consider this fact, we sell lumber to Japan, then Japan sells plywood to us. Of course we are always losers in this kind of trading, we export raw materials and import manufactured ones. With the economy also failing, will the future of the youth in this country look good? Failing economy also leads to rarity in jobs. Maybe it is really the reason why many Filipinos choose to live this country, to find greener pastures.
This country has great natural resources, human talent and power, and opportunities. We only need proper management and manipulation of these advantages to improve our economy. But with leaders that are corrupt and Filipino morale low, this is vague to happen.
If these conditions in the Philippines will continue, this country will shortly be in chaos if not already in chaos. I guess we cannot blame those people who consider this country as a "Hell." Will there be a chance to change all of this?
For me there is only one thing that can change our country. That is if there will be a revival. Revival in our lives and revival for our country are the things that will change this country for the better. We need to recommit ourselves and this country to God.
Some may say, "Wait a minute. We are already committed to God. Remember that we are the only Christian nation in Asia. We, Filipinos, are already religious."
Yes, I agree that Filipinos are religious. But are they really committed to God? I don't think so.
God is the only one who can change this country for the better. Filipinos are religious but self-centered. Filipinos are religious but does not really trusts God. Filipinos are religious for themselves.
I saw documentaries about cities and countries fully humbling themselves before God and asking for help. They see that only God can make the difference. And their prayers were answered, their countries or cities greatly improved. Morals were raised, economies improved and the way of life flourished.
I really do think that this can also happen to our country. God revived those countries and cities and He can do this to us. I believe that God can and will heal this land if we surrendered ourselves to Him. All Filipinos should sincerely ask for a revival.
God is powerful and He can certainly "scare the Hell out of this country". As a young Filipino, what I can do is pray for a personal revival in my life first then pray for a national revival. Revival starts with one's self. The national thing will follow.
May God help and guide us. God bless the Philippines!

HELL

Hell is true. It is the final destination of all who are damned. There is suffering here day and night. The damned ones will burn and burn for all eternity. Worst of all you will be separated from the presence of God. Only the Children of Light, God's Chosen Ones, will be saved from this fate in the afterlife. But in some cases, for me, hell also exists here on earth. Really. There is hell on earth. Poverty. Hunger. Greed. Jealosy. War. Hate. Lust. Selfishness. Suffering. Diseases. Corruption. Discrimination. Terrorism. Self Righteousness. Heartbreaks. You name it. Now you may see, there is a figurative, or maybe it can be a literal, "hell" in this earth.
I am fond of saying hell. When I am frustrated, angry, lonely or dissapointed about a certain problem, I will find myself saying,"Hell!". It is really part of getting over with that frustaration, anger, loneliness or dissapointment. And later, I can get over with that problem and return to my old self and smile. It reminds me that the problem is not a "hell". You see, as a Christian there is no hell for you. Either in the afterlife or now in your life in this world. Like me, you encounter problems in this life. Health problems. Money problems. Identity problems. School problems (especially those "hellish" math problems). Girl problems. No matter what problems, big or small, when you are a Christian God will help you overcome those problems and you will find yourself still happy. It will never be "hell". That is the significance of Christ's death and ressurection. You may experience problems, but you will never ever experience hell (in the afterlife or in this world) in your life if you are a Christian. That is the truth.
Don't believe me. Read the Bible, it will scare the hell out of you.